Dear God, God(s), Universe, Creator, You,
Some days I feel so ungrateful. I have so much yet I want
more. I have so many reasons to be happy, yet I linger in sadness. Why is it so
difficult to bask in the joy of my blessings? I look at my love and my heart
flutters, why can’t I always feel this way? Why do my worries overcome me when
clearly love has wrapped itself around me through the divinity of my lover, my
family, and my friends? Why do I carry with me this feeling of unworthiness?
Why do I not feel worthy of the gifts placed all around me?
I’m beginning to realize why. I have trouble loving myself.
I have trouble forgiving myself. My blessings become my burden when I feel
shame for not having done more, for not having given more… for not being
perfect. I am loved by such incredible people and forces but instead of
celebrating, I stumble under the weight of my own expectations and judgment. I
don’t feel worthy. I’ve let people down. People, who love me, people who’ve
needed me. I’ve let myself down. I’ve broken promises to myself time and time
again. How can I believe myself anymore? And to the point, how can I love
myself anymore?
It’s because of you, my brothers and sisters. I see the
light of loved ones even when they don’t see it in themselves. I find myself feeling
out the words of love and support I readily give others as some foreign object
of hope. Have I been so blind that I never realized that the words I crafted
and imbued with love for others is also meant for me? And that I exist here for
more than the words but to live this message? I am not perfect and I will never
be, but I am worthy of my own love; I am worthy of forgiveness. Loving myself
isn’t egotistical, it’s necessary.
I’m not certain where this path will lead me, though I am
sure to get lost again. I hope to remember and maintain a practice of self love,
so when the path is winding or perhaps I’ve lost the path altogether, I remember
to listen to the compass of my heart, for although others may travel farther
and my feet may stray further, I've only ever traveled to find myself.
PS I say “I” but I really mean “We.”